A Guide to Centerpieces for Rectangular Tables

We’ve talked before about how to design a wedding tablescape and the appropriate linen sizes for different tables.

Today we want to speak specifically about best practices for rectangular tables. Creating a stunning tablescape with florals and candles requires careful planning to ensure both beauty and functionality. For a rectangular table, the width plays a crucial role in determining the layout, balance, and available space for candles and flowers while still being mindful of dinner service essentials like bread baskets, salt and pepper shakers, and other serving pieces.

Below is a guide tailored to three common table widths: 30", 36", and 40".

Understanding Table Width and Space Allocation

Each table width offers different opportunities and challenges when designing your tablescape. Keeping dinner service elements in mind will help you strike the perfect balance between elegance and practicality.

30" Wide Tables

  • Best for: Intimate gatherings, smaller venues, or maximizing guest capacity.

  • Considerations: With a narrower table, space is limited for large arrangements, so opt for streamlined centerpieces.

  • Do’s and Don’ts:

    • Use small floral arrangements and bud vases to avoid crowding the table.

    • Use slim taper candle holders or votives to keep sightlines open.

    • Ensure space for table essentials by leaving small gaps between florals for bread baskets, salt and pepper shakers, etc.

    • Keep side plates to the left of the forks to leave room in the centre.

    • Don’t use garlands as they take up the entire centre length of the table, leaving no room for the necessities.

    • Don’t use charger plates as they will take up vital space.

36" Wide Tables

  • Best for: Balanced table settings with more design flexibility.

  • Considerations: Provides a good balance between ample tablescape design and service elements.

  • Floral & Candle Ideas:

    • Use a variety of small to medium-sized floral arrangements staggered along the table’s center.

    • Incorporate varying heights with pillar candles, tapers, and votives to create depth and interest.

    • Leave room for communal dining items strategically between floral elements.

    • Keep side plates to the left of the forks to leave room in the centre.

    • Don’t use garlands as they take up the entire centre length of the table, leaving no room for the necessities.

40" Wide Tables

  • Best for: Formal events and grand tablescapes with abundant decorative elements.

  • Considerations: The extra width allows for larger statement arrangements without interfering with table settings and guest comfort.

  • Floral & Candle Ideas:

    • Opt for lush, full floral centerpieces with ample space for a combination of taper and pillar candles and votives.

    • Use decorative runners or greenery garlands to create a layered effect.

Practical Tips for Incorporating Dinner Service Essentials

  1. Account for Plating Needs: Ensure at least 24" of space per guest for dinnerware, glassware, and napkins.

  2. Use Dual-Purpose Décor: Opt for low-profile floral arrangements that do not obstruct views or conversation. Use coloured candles to allow for design interest on the table.

  3. Strategic Placement: Leave space between items so that they all have a moment to shine which also gives room for those dinner service elements. Don’t put coffee mugs and saucers on the table until coffee and tea are to be served.

  4. Vary Heights for Interest: Mix taper candles, votives, and floral heights to add visual interest without overwhelming the space.

  5. Mind Open Flames: If using candles, ensure they are in holders that prevent dripping wax onto the table.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right tablescape for your event depends on your table width, aesthetic vision, and practical considerations for dining service. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand affair, balancing florals, candles, and functional table elements will create an inviting and visually stunning experience for your guests.

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Romantic and Timeless White Wedding at Elora Mill

Madeline and Jaron’s Elora Mill wedding ceremony and reception was classic, and romantic full of timeless white wedding decor.

Madeline and her girls got ready at Cedarcliff Elora, a beautiful rental home that makes the best backdrop for wedding day preparations. From the exterior, it looks like a building straight out of Europe, but when you get inside, its interior design is bright, modern, and simple, with stunning features that never outshine the subject during portraits. It also blends seamlessly with the decor of Elora Mill, which helps wedding photos feel cohesive throughout the entire day. Shannon Petrolito and Jeige Beauty were onsite for wedding hair and makeup and they had plenty of space for everyone to feel comfortable!

Madeline and Jaron opted for Creative Direction, our wedding design service where we create a full concept for your wedding design along with clear instructions on how to bring it to life with your vendors on your own. This service is perfect for weddings at the Elora Mill. We love designing weddings at Elora Mill because it’s got such beautiful bones. From the soft and elegant design of the Mill’s ceremony location, The Foundry, to the more natural elements incorporated into the interior of The Granary’s reception rooms, it’s fun to play off. Madeline wanted soft, elegant, romantic and timeless with a white and cream colour palette and I think the team nailed it! We then re-connected to finalize all of their plans through the Event Management service.

Jodi Leigh Designs led the wedding flower design, pulling our suggested pieces from Simply Beautiful Decor for tabletop decor. All That’s Lovely’s day of stationery was the soft, elegant design the space needed so the stationery was functional but beautiful. Mango Studios perfectly captured the elegance and timelessness of the day.

Madeline and Jaron’s day was exclusive to them, meaning their ceremony happened in The Foundry, cocktail hour in the Irvine Room and lobby and reception in the Grand Room. We also had some fun with their floorplan, pulling the head table forward and running parallel with it instead of the usual perpendicular! Scroll through to see how their Elora Mill wedding came to life!

Services: Creative Direction and Event Management

Elora Mill Grand Room Wedding Floorplan

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A Colorful and Intimate Same-Sex Gardiner Museum Wedding, a Downtown Toronto Wedding Venue

Mitchell and Scott had been dreaming of a Gardiner Museum wedding when they reached out for wedding planning help in the fall of 2022, yet they were still open to exploring other venues just to make sure their decision was the right one. I sure am glad we made it back to hosting their wedding at Gardiner Museum because it truly is one of my favourite downtown Toronto wedding venues.

From there, we got to dive further into their wedding colour palette and we had so much fun! This was their second must-have - a colour palette that was broad and colourful, fun but classic, without being too literal with the Pride Rainbow. We leaned into green as our lead colour since it felt masculine but inviting. It also allowed us to use the fun, modern, pistachio coloured dining chairs the venue had on hand. The florals allowed us to expand the palette to include purples, blues, pinks and white sparingly just as a backdrop to let the other pieces pop.

The third must-have item on the list was to incorporate their dog, Chester, not only in their ceremony, but also throughout their wedding day stationery. They actually found me on Instagram from a post I had shared of Emilie and Leo’s wedding, where we featured their beautiful doggo, Maple, right through from their wedding invitations to their sweets table cookies! All That’s Lovely, a local Hamilton wedding invitation designer, embraced their vision and created a suite that felt elegant but fun using colour blocking as an economical design element to increase the overall richness using Racing Stripe Green invitation paper with white ink, a Pistachio envelope and a Powder Green details card.

Fable Floral Design, an incredible Toronto wedding florist, was given creative liberty to take our ideas and bring them to life. We dreamed up a unique wedding ceremony floral design using florals and candles on pedestals varying in height. Once the ceremony was complete, this piece was transitioned into a unique seating chart idea. While some florals were transitioned to guest centerpieces, others remained in place, simply replaced with four seating chart signs.

Having the opportunity to work with Daniel et Daniel, easily the best Toronto wedding caterer was a real treat. They handled all venue communication and food and beverage. Their food was incredible and we preset the first course of a watermelon salad which only added to the guest experience as guests entered the Gardiner Museum’s Terrace Room that was transitioned from wedding ceremony to wedding reception.

The full team who brought this downtown Toronto Gardiner Museum wedding venue to life includes Christine Lim Photography, Fable Floral Design, Daniel et Daniel, Element Events, All You Need is Love Weddings, All That’s Lovely Paper Co., ES Bridal, Castle and Cole, Evolved Entertainment and The Food Dudes.

A Classic Wedding at Langdon Hall Country House and Spa in Cambridge, Ontario

Baby’s Breath has had quite the journey. From a common and inexpensive filler flower from the 90’s to the rustic barn era from 2009 to 2013, it has now made a surprising come-back very, very quickly and, honestly, I could have used another decade before I was ready to embrace it again, but here we are! I strive to design weddings that feel classic, elegant and timeless so I wasn’t entirely sure how I was going to embrace this baby’s breath comeback in a way that felt consistent with my brand, but I’m sure glad I did.

I felt like it was a go-big or go-home kind of situation so I decided to make it a focal point wherever possible. From a large seating chart frame to a circular arch and flowing aisle and head table floral elements, it sure ended up as a statement element that felt fresh, modern and still somehow timeless.

Incorporating roses helped it to feel romantic, orchids to feel more modern and a soft, but warm colour palette made it feel calm while the use of classic patterns and texture helped it to feel upscale. Of course, the gorgeous setting of Langdon Hall Country House & Spa as a wedding venue didn’t hurt either in creating an overall sense of serene and calm.

In the end, might I even dare say that I am here for this baby’s breath trend to stay a little longer?!

The Langdon Hall Country House & Spa Wedding Dream Team consisted of Julia Park Photography, Statue Rue, Kendon Design Co., Simply Beautiful Decor, Makeup Worx, All You Need is Love Weddings and The Wright DJ Services.

Service: Full Planning and Design

Perfect Wedding Ceremony Songs: A Curated Playlist for Your Big Day

Selecting the right music for your wedding ceremony is a beautiful way to set the tone for the day. The songs you choose will help create the perfect atmosphere for each meaningful moment; from the processional to the recessional, and everything in between. Whether you envision something classical, contemporary, or deeply personal, your ceremony music should reflect your unique love story and style.

Perhaps there’s a song you love but it’s not the right tempo. Nowadays, there are so many covers popular songs with a fresh slowed-down take and music streaming services like Apple Music and Spotify can help get these in front of you. We’ve discovered some incredible covers our couples have used in their own weddings - from slow and steady for the processional and signing, to fun and upbeat for the recessional. So if you're looking for inspiration, we have created a playlist full of songs our past clients have used for their own weddings ceremonies.

You can also check out our playlists for First Dance Songs and Parent Dance Songs here!

THE ULTIMATE WEDDING CEREMONY SONG PLAYLIST

A Sky Full of Stars - Coldplay

A Sky Full of Stars - The Piano Guys

A Thousand Years - Christina Perri

A Thousand Years - Daniel Jang

A Town With an Ocean View - Ghibli Melodies

A-Punk - Vampire Weekend

All of Me - John Legend

Always Remember Us This Way - Lady Gaga

Always With Me / Spirited Away (Piano) - Relaxing Piano & Makiko Hirohashi

Angel - Vitamin String Quartet

Be My Baby - The Ronettes

Behind the Rose - Tom Odell

Beige - Yolklore

Beyond - Leon Bridges

Beyond - Leon Bridges

Birds of Feather - Laurel Wood

Black and White - Niall Horan

Bless the Broken Road (Acoustic) - Rascal Flatts

Bless the Broken Road - The Piano Guys and John Schmidt

Bloom (Acoustic) - Timothy Douglas Music

Bloom (Bonus Track) - The Paper Kites

Bloom - The Paper Kites

Butterfly Kisses - Bob Carlisle

Can't Help Falling in Love - Daniel Jang

Can’t Help Falling in Love - Kina Grannis

Can’t Take My Eyes Off You - Frankie Valli

Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol

Clarity - Vance Joy

Concerning the UFO Sighting - Sufjan Stevens

Crazy in Love - Beyoncé ft. Jay-Z

Dancing in the Moonlight - Toploader

Daylight - Taylor Swift

Dog Days Are Over - Florence anda the Machine

Enchanted - Taylor Swift

Everywhere - Fleetwood Mac

Everywhere, Everything - Noah Kahan and Gracie Abrams

Feel the Love (Ft. John Newman) - Rudimental

First Date (cover of Blink 182) - Taylor Acorn

Give Me Love - Ed Sheeran

God Bless the Broken Road (Instrumental) - Rascal Flatts

God Only Knows - Beach Boys

Halo - Beyoncé

Halo (Piano Instrumental) - Box of Music

Hallelujah - Leonard Cohen

Heavenly Day - Patty Griffin

Here Comes the Sun - Benny Martin

Here Comes the Sun - Emerald Empire Band

Here Comes the Sun - The Beatles

Here Comes the Sun - United Guitar Players

Hey Jude - ItsAMoney

Higher Love - An International Affair

Higher Love - Kygo, Whitney Houston

Ho Hey - The Lumineers

Home - Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros

How Long Will I Love You - Ellie Goulding

How Long Will I Love You - Jon Boden

Humble and Kind - Tim McGraw

I Can't Help Myself (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch) - Four Tops

I Do, I Do, I Do - ABBA

I Have A Dream - ABBA

Invisible String - One Piano

Invisible String - Piano Dreamers

I’m Coming Out - Diana Ross

It’s a Sin - Pet Shop Boys

Kiss Me - Sixpence None the Richer

L-O-V-E - Nat King Cole

Learning to Fly - Tom Petty

Levels - Avicii

Love on Top - Beyoncé

Luna, Amore E No - Piero Piccioni

Maestro - Hans Zimmer

Marry Me - Train

Me & You Together Song - The 1975

Ordinary People (Instrumental) - John Legend

Over the Rainbow - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

Paper Rings - Taylor Swift

Pachelbel Canon in D

Patient Love (acoustic) - Passenger

Pitter Patter Goes My Heart - Broken Social Scene

Real Love Baby - Father John Misty

Reckoner - Radiohead

She’s a Rainbow - The Rolling Stones

Signed, Sealed, Delivered - Stevie Wonder

Simply the Best - Billianne

Sky Full of Stars (acoustic) - Piano Guys

Someone Like You - Van Morrison

Somewhere Only We Know - Renee Dominique

Somewhere Only We Know - Rhianne

Spring 1, Vivaldi's Four Seasons - Max Richter

Stand by Me - Florence + The Machine

Sunny - Boney M

Sweet Child of Mine - Jasmine Thompson

Sweet Creature - Harry Styles

Thinking Out Loud - Ed Sheeran

This Beautiful Life - Ocie Elliot

This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) - Natalie Cole

Town with an Ocean View - Studio Ghibli

Turning Page - Sydney Rose

Veridis Quo - Daft Punk

Video Games - Lana Del Ray

Viva La Vida - Coldplay

Walk Home - Bon Iver

Wildest Dreams - Taylor Swift

You Are In Love - Taylor Swift

You Are The Best Thing - Ray LaMontagne

You Send Me - Aretha Franklin

You and I - Wilco/Feist

Your Song (piano instrumental) - Attila Fias

You’ll Never Walk Alone - Gerry & The Pacemakers

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Best Parent Dance Wedding Songs: Honouring Your Loved Ones

Parent dances—such as the father-daughter and mother-son dances—are a beautiful tradition that highlights the special bond between a bride or groom and the parent who has helped guide them through life. These dances are a meaningful way to express gratitude to the parent or parental figure who has played a significant role in their upbringing.

While parent dances are still a popular tradition at weddings, we’re often asked about the best place to schedule them in the evening timeline. The most common order is as follows: the couple’s first dance, followed by the father-daughter dance, and then the mother-son dance, which typically signals the start of the dance floor festivities. However, some couples prefer to kick off the dancing right after their first dance, so in those cases, we often schedule the parent dances during dinner, right after the respective parent's toast.

Regardless of where you choose to place these dances in your timeline, one thing remains constant: the song choice matters. The song you pick for your parent dance sets the tone and adds to the emotional impact of the moment. Whether it’s a classic, a heartfelt ballad, or something more personal, the right song can make the dance unforgettable for you both! We hope you find this playlist helpful!

You can also check out our playlists for First Dance Songs and Wedding Ceremony Songs here!

THE ULTIMATE LIST OF SONGS FOR PARENT DANCES

All You Need Is Love – The Beatles

Because You Loved Me – Celine Dion

Best Parts of Me – Will Dempsey

Butterfly Kisses – Bob Carlisle

Can't Take My Eyes Off of You – Frankie Valli

Days Like This – Van Morrison

Forever Now – Michael Bublé

Forever Young – Rod Stewart

God Only Knows – The Beach Boys

Harvest Moon – Neil Young

Here Comes the Sun – Boyce Avenue

Her Little Man – Jami Grooms

Humble and Kind – Tim McGraw

I Don't Dance – Lee Brice

I Hope You Dance – Lee Ann Womack

Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder

Landslide – Fleetwood Mac

My Girl – The Temptations

My Little Girl – Tim McGraw

My Wish – Rascal Flatts

Protector – Beyoncé

Sara Smile – Daryl Hall & John Oates

Shower the People – James Taylor

Stand By Me – Otis Redding

(They Long to Be) Close to You – The Carpenters

This Dance – Scott Thomas Laughridge

Three Little Birds – Kacey Musgraves

To Sir With Love – Lulu

Two Steps Behind (Acoustic Version) – Def Leppard

Unforgettable – Natalie Cole and Nat King Cole

The Way You Look Tonight – Harry Connick Jr.

What a Wonderful World – Louis Armstrong

Wildflowers – Tom Petty

You'll Be In My Heart – Phil Collins

You'll Be In My Heart – Stillman

Yours – Post Malone

Your Song – Ellie Goulding

Your Song – Elton John

You've Got a Friend in Me – Sleeping at Last

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Summer Garden-Inspired Wedding at Elora Mill

This garden-inspired wedding at Elora Mill tops the list of our favourite weddings of all-time. We got to work on a fun, warm, colour palette that inspired us right from the beginning. From a warm terracotta to a soft romantic peach, paired with tiny hints of yellow and purple supported by a backdrop of green made everything feel so punchy and perfect for this late summer wedding.

Once our palette was set, we started the floral design with Forever Wildfield. Michelle wanted a lush garden-inspired wedding, but I knew that it could quickly fall into overload and feel overwhelming if we weren't smart about scaling the florals appropriately to the size of the room and available table dimensions. This meant creating some very cool winding floral arrangements down the guest tables that were taller than they were wide, using the available vertical space without interfering with conversation across the table. We then worked on creating focus around their sweetheart table so it didn’t feel small and out of place in a large room with 180 guests. We then worked on the tabletop pieces so that some elements seemingly blended away into the florals (ie. the tan-coloured glassware and terracotta and peach-coloured candles) and the charger plates, napkins and menus offered loads of texture layered on the tabletop, playing to both the sight and touch senses.

Now that all the big picture elements were lined up, we could start pulling details from them to give guests their first taste of what was to come through the invitations. Melissa from Statue Rue is one of my favourite Toronto wedding invitation designers. Having a love for paper, it’s no wonder her designs appeal to the sense of touch with hand-made cotton papers, natural hand-torn edges and printed with letterpress to reveal the impression of the text in the paper. It was fun to incorporate a delicate flower wreath around the invitation as a nod to the floral glory that was to come at the garden-inspired wedding reception.

The Elora Mill wedding team did an impeccable job ensuring Michelle’s dream came to life with their attention to detail on the day - from the wedding concierge to the catering team, we think they’re pretty important in making the days run so smoothly for our clients.

The team includes Jeff Shuh Photography, Forever Wildfield, Statue Rue, Simply Beautiful Decor, Allyssa Helm Beauty, Sweet Celebrations, 586 Event Group and Leith Quartet. Michelle’s dress is a Galia Lahav design.

Service: Full Planning and Design

THE FLOORPLAN

The Elora Mill Grand Room is an asymmetrical shape making it sometimes hard to imagine something new, especially if your guest count maxes out the room. We didn’t do too much here to change things from the norm, but we did find small ways to make it unique with a round sweetheart table and a division between two of the tables at the back of the room. We also changed around which green and white charger plates were used at each table to create a bit more of a difference between the tables.

You can see more of our Elora Mill weddings and their floorplans here.